He can be challenging somtimes no doubt! Makes you want to knock his crazy ass out...

He can be strict and stern, and hard to learn... sometimes you want to scream and shout!

He makes these rules and regulations, doesn't think about the situation, and if he's mischevous, he'll use manipulation...

and when he gets his, forget your stimulation...

I know, it's rough sometimes... but let's consider this...

Remember the first time when you two first met, and he gave you that long seductive kiss...

Or what about your first date, was it not magical, and didn't he go all out without a miss...

Remember the time he bought you flowers on your birthday, and cooked you breakfast in bed...

Or what about that hot water he ran for your bath, even put great smelling bubble bath in the water ... and it was him who bathed you instead...

He mesaged your feet... cooked you dinnner... went to work all day... paid the bills... and even after a long day, he suprised you with some of the best sex you think you ever had to make the day complete.

He was still by your side when your friends and family talked about bad about him, he still was there... he provided a roof for the family, bought the girls dresses, and took the boys to the barber ... and if he was real good, he would cut their hair...

So the finances are low, and the progress is slow,  love comes into question, is separation a might... sometimes you two would even get so stressed out, even fuss and fight...

What about issues with beliefs... so stressed you can't sleep... I pray the Lord my soul to keep... Oh Allah he makes me want to weep... he don't get the gist of how my feelings being a woman is so deep...

Does he notice me sometimes... does he even care... that I bought that beautiful neglige out of my money, and fixed up my hair so he can stop and stare for his pleasure... and bliss me away as if I was his only treasure...

But what about considering how he feels sometimes... he likes to eat... he likes treats... he has a sexual appetite so lavish he's constantly a dog in heat.

He likes baths and showers, and just to say "I LOVE YOU" gives him power...

If he truly loves you, then nothing else matters, he chose you for a reason... and let's you know it every hour...

Sometimes he'll just look and stare, and crack a grin or two, a hug should be good enough to say "Baby, I LOVE YOU"... and trust, even tho he may not speak it all the time, he does love your flair; come on now... he's still there!!!

He's struggling in this world for you, taking shit from the man... and he's still able to come home and take you to wonderland? Stop it I say... you're missing it, if money is your loves only answer... then ladies, trust, it's not him that's the disease, it's you whose the cancer.

A person that chose you despite of your faults, despite of the imperfections... still loves you and do all he can? Just go with the flow, and work it out... and BY ALL MEANS... STAND BY YOUR MAN!!!

*Trust...it could have been ANYBODY ELSE! A GOOD man willing to go through all of that from you is HARD to find...sometimes.. bite the bullet... just once... you will be amazed how far you too would go...it's all about COMPROMISE!!!*